“When family and society’s expectations collide, it can create tough decisions. Today, a woman faced this dilemma. She turned to the internet seeking advice, feeling conflicted about welcoming her parent into her home.”
She shared her side of the story.

“I’m a 32-year-old woman who bought a two-bedroom house last year. Now, my mom, who’s 60 and retiring, wants to move from our old house to my city. She asked if she could stay in my extra bedroom instead of getting her own place. I love her, but I said no because I don’t want to lose my guest room and privacy.”

“I’m 32 and have a house with two bedrooms. My mom, who’s 60 and retiring, wants to move to my city from our old home. She asked if she could stay in my spare room instead of getting her own place. I care about her, but I said no because I want to keep my guest room and privacy.”

“I feel bad, but I’m not ready to let my mom move in at 32 when I finally have my own place. My brother says I’m selfish for not agreeing with mom’s plan. But I don’t think her retirement means I have to give up my privacy at home. Am I wrong?”